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Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Christmas Day Revisited
Resolve
1. Never clean up the kitchen again.
Now, I told my perfect husband this resolution yesterday and he said, "I completely understand and support that resolution. I don't like cleaning the kitchen either and most of the time the squalor doesn't seem to bother anyone else but you, so Good Job!" Then I told my real husband, because my perfect husband left when I woke up, and he said "then we will have to eat out all the time and that gets very expensive." So this brings me to resolution number two.
2.
I haven't yet figured out what number two is going to be, but I am working on something that involves more money, or a housekeeper maybe even housekeeper/cook, or a new husband, or some combination of the three.
Sunday, December 28, 2008
To blog or not to blog
Well, as I mentioned yesterday, Bibianna is staying at my mom's house for a few days and she spent some time yesterday going through my grandmother's scrapbook from when she was a teenager through maybe early 20s. It is so cool to go back and see what was going on in my grandmother's life and in the world during that time and also to see what her interests were. Bibianna told me that she read several articles about the first set of living quadruplets! Can you imagine that being a first. Now with all the fertility treatments quadruplets seem almost as "normal" as twins. My grandmother also had several articles about a murder/kidnapping that took place in the 30s (I think). It happened in the same small town where my grandparents grew up. When I read those articles, years ago, without the invent of CNN and all the docudrama movies that make these chilling events seem "common," I was just so entranced by the fact that something that horrible could happen in a place that seems so safe. It still amazes me.
So, this is going to be my scrapbook. I am going to continue to write for the sake of keeping family posted and because it is fun and a little cathartic for me, and because hopefully it will be an ongoing record that my grandchildren may be able to look back on in future years and marvel at how much things change and how much they stay the same.
No movies today....Carolyn and I have been loyally dedicated to the House marathon on the USA network. (It is Carolyn's favorite show). I actually have been watching and sleeping. Since being on call is kind of like having a new born baby and I never really get to sleep more than about two hours with out my baby crying (pager ringing) I have just enjoyed laying on the couch and napping and responding to pages and watching House with Carolyn. Not a bad Sunday.
Saturday, December 27, 2008
The Leftovers
On Christmas day, my dad and step-mother came for dinner. Joey deep fried a turkey in the backyard (I will post pictures later after I get time to download them). I baked a ham, two versions of cornbread dressing (vegetarian and non-vegetarian), sweet potatoes, broccoli/chesse casserole, green bean casserole and I even made two pies that weren't half bad. I have been eating, and eating, and eating since Christmas day. I love leftovers: therefore, I hate leftovers. I honestly think that the food just gets better everyday. Fortunately, we are starting to see the bottom of the dishes so that is good. As soon as it is all gone, it is back to healthy eating (which implies that we were eating healthily before the holiday season...HAH!) again. Maybe I will make that one of my New Years Resolutions......
Oh yeah, and I forgot to mention movies yesterday. We watched "The House Bunny" and "The Dark Knight." Tonight our viewing choices are "The Happening" and "Mama Mia."
Friday, December 26, 2008
Bah Humbug!
Bah Humbug! I hate having to go on-call the day after Christmas. I am so spoiled by the last few days of bliss that today has just given me a headache. I know, I know, I should see the glass as half full (yes, I had the luxury of taking a whole week off from work) rather than half empty (ppffllttt!) but I am having a hard time doing that today. My kitchen still looks like a mini-tornado blew through. What I can't figure out is where all these dishes came from and where to put them now that I am finished with them. I know that they were "somewhere" before I got them out over the past week, but where? All my storage spaces are full and I just don't know how I had them all stashed away. Must be some type of Christmas phenomenon, kind of like the phenomenon where socks disappear in the dryer, or why you can never fold a map back up like it was when you first opened it. Anyway, it could be a lot worse than it is, but UGH.....hate the end of the holiday.
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Christmas Eve Gift
So, this morning at 6:00 a.m., Bibianna with some covert help from her father, Christmas Eve Gifted me before I was even completely conscious. Carolyn, on the other hand, had to be coached to get out of bed and come see her Christmas Eve gift! Bibianna got a Wonka Gingerbread House kit so that she and her father can revive another tradtion that we haven't done in about 3 years. We used to bake all our own gingerbread and Joey would spend hours on just the right design, but as adulthood and careers have consumed more of our free time and energy, I thought that a pre-made, ready to assemble kit would do the trick. Joey still spent some time on ideas to "modify" the kit and he and Bibianna went to the store bright and early to purchase more candy. They also made their own fondant for the roof to make it look like a snow covered cottage.
Carolyn, my vegetarian child that lives on smoothies and milkshakes, received a wave station for her Christmas Eve gift. No more ice chunks, the box promises, and the decanter has a cool spicket at the bottom perfect for dispensing those frozen concoctions.
Bibianna also got in on the action, (although technically, according the rules, she is safe because she Christmas Eve Gifted all of us first), and gave Carolyn and I christmas PJ pants. YAY!!!
So, movies yesterday and Monday were "Fred Claus" and "Horton Hears a Who." Not sure yet quite what is on tap for tonight, other than midnight mass at 11:00 p.m. (?) but I am enjoying the lineup that has been playing on Turner Classic Movies.
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Day of the Longest Night
Today was spent making a new batch of fudge, which thank goodness, turned out beautifully. I haven't made candy in about 3 years and I now have a new home, new stove, and was a little disappointed yesterday when I ruined my first batch. But, I always remember an interview once with Julia Child, who said that she had to make Creme Brulee many times before she was able to get it right. She said something along the lines of ....it is just eggs, and cream and butter, so what is the harm of ruining a batch and throwing it out. So, I threw out the old batch of fudge (or fudge attempt) from yesterday and forged ahead today with great results. We also made some fantastic, and easy, magic cookie bars.
Today's movies are:
Step Brothers (stupid, but has given us some great jokes for today)
The X-Files (the newest one)
The Bucket List
Today's photos are actually from yesterday, but the battery on my camera was dead, so I will just have to take some more tomorrow.
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Let the Candy Making Begin
So, I got up and had to wait for Bibianna to get up because I promised, PROMISED, that I wouldn't start making candy without her. Although she didn't share my initial enthusiasm of embracing the day before the sun rises, she was a new person after a nice cappuccino. Today, we made fudge (which I ruined) and a batch of divinity that was just divine. I also took about a 30 minute nap with the two dogs cuddled up with me on the comfy couch. Is there anything better than this? I don't think so.
Movie for the day: The Passion.
Friday, December 19, 2008
Writer's Block
Anyway, my Christmas holiday officially began today at 4:00 p.m. (Except for the fact that I just spent about 30 minutes finishing up some things that I didn't have time to finish during my 8 hours today. Does that make me a workaholic, or just really inefficient?) So, now, I am on my way to a most festive and enjoyable holiday. The next few days will be filled with baking, and candy making, and last minute shopping, and watching movies. The girls are finished with school until the first week of January, the dogs are freshly groomed and all the grocery shopping has been completed. I will try to get back to my original schedule of posting everyday, and throw in some pics for good measure.
Monday, December 15, 2008
Figuratively speaking
As I was listening to this interview, and thoroughly enjoyed it, I realize just how much I, like many other people, butcher the English language. (Especially when I have a deluxe headache). One of my pet peeves is the word "literally." It is used so much now when the word "figuratively" should be used, that the word is losing its meaning. Even though I may not be an expert on words, I do love them and how they are used. I also love the fact that language is constantly changing like a living organism.
One of the joys of my jobs is word watching. For instance, several of the hospitals that we support use the company "Precyse" for their transcription services. I find that amusing that a company who markets their skills for accurate transcription services is misspelled. I am sure it is a clever marketing technique, but I still find it amusing. Or, how about the hospital named Dedman (pronounced Dead-man), seems like a bad name for a hospital. Or Dr. Mallis (malice), yikes! I just love those. Anyway, check out the book and/or interview if you like words for words sake.
Friday, December 12, 2008
Christmas Madrigal Dinner
"The Madrigal Dinner is a modern invention based on several Renaissance and Medieval traditions. With each sound of the trumpet fanfare this evening, you will discover Christmas as it was celebrated in the ancient tranditions of Merrie Olde England. As you lift your glass, you will be practicing the same customs that people have enjoyed for hundrends of years in good times and in bad. As we raise our voice in a toast to the meaning of Christmas, we wish you and your family the best of the holiday season, filled with joy and beauty." -- Christmas Madrigal Dinner program
We had a splendid time tonight at the Madrigal Dinner. We dined on a scrumptious meal of chicken, rice, green beans, bread, and salad with a desert of chocolate cake (the good kind) with chocolate frosting and chocolate sauce. The wenches served us warm wassail for us to toast one and all. The music was wonderful and the following pictures, which aren't that great, are the best I could do in a dark room with an old camera. I just kept snapping and holding still until the image was captured which took anywhere from 5 - 10 seconds after I pressed the button. So, I will have better photos when Joey downloads his camera and sends them too me. Until then, enjoy.
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Nothing exciting
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Dueling Concerts

Last night was crazy. Bibianna had her Christmas concert at 7:00 at Southland Baptist Church and Carolyn had her Christmas concert at 7:30 over at Holy Angels. Well, with getting them where they needed to be by the time they needed to be there and trying to see both of them sing was a good exercise. Anyway, I managed to see Bibianna sing one song (and Joey took pictures of her with his camera, and I will post those when he sends them to me) then I raced to Holy Angels and I saw Carolyn sing all of her songs. However, being bubble-headed as I am, I left my camera at Bibianna's concert so I had to take a picture of Carolyn with my cell phone. She is the last one on the right side of the first row. (Right in front of the girl with the blue hair. As a parent, and fairly conservative I used to think that I would just freak out if one of my children came home with blue, green, purple, etc. hair color. But this girl was very helpful last night in marking where Carolyn was. So, I guess that if I ever get a child with a non-common hair color I will just try to focus on the positive value that it makes them easier to spot in a crowd. But I digress.....) Anyway, the choirs performed beautifully. I was almost moved to tears at how beautiful such young voices can be. We are blessed with two more opportunities this week to hear them sing. Bibianna will be performing at the Madrigal Dinner on Friday and Carolyn has her winter recital on Sunday. I will try to remember my camera and get some better pictures to share. Maybe I will ask for a video camera for Christmas so that I can share their beautiful voices also.
We have also begun the process of decorating for Christmas which goes something like this. Get boxes from attic. Rest. Open boxes. Rest. Put up pre-lit artificial tree and try to get lights to work. Rest. Put some ornaments up. Rest. Now, here is where the process begins to deviate. We now have 4 furry children and only one has seen Christmas before. Ella thinks that the tree is her own personal climbing post. So, she climbs up about 2/3 of the way and perches. This of course, makes Mopsy cray so she runs around the tree and barks, until she thinks about the presents or ornaments and she grabs something and takes it out to her collection in the back yard. Morocco on the other hand is much more subtle. He quietly manages to get under the tree and start opening presents. It is fun to watch. It is also so entertaining to go into the back yard and find what all Mopsy has taken outside. Never ceases to amaze me.
And, last but not least, I would like to say THANK YOU to Belinda for becoming my second follower.
ADDENDUM: December 10, 10:25 p.m. Beautiful Bibianna from her Christmas conert last night.
Monday, December 8, 2008
Dedicated Fans
"It isn't?" I asked with a note of excitement.
Apparently Carolyn didn't realized that I thought this was going to be a complement because she then added, "Yes. Saxophones are what people who can't play musical instruments play."
So, I guess that doesn't make us nerdy, just losers.
Today I took Ella to the vet because she has a UTI. While we were there, she jumped up on the table and posed behind the cutest little Norman Rockwell decoration.
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Follow me
Carolyn made it home last night, or technically this morning about 1:00 a.m. Although she didn't make it to the finals for any of her interp pieces, she did make it to the semi-finals for her prose piece entitled "Yogurt Girl." The piece describes perfectly my first few years after college, working in a cubicle and learning how to survive off of the food provided (and left over) from meetings and scavenging from left overs forgotten in the communal refrigerator. I also became a regular at the dented can store, but that's a different story. Anyway, I am very proud that Carolyn made it to the semi-finals and I baked her trophy cookies anyway. (I also baked car cookies because we are planning to get her driver's license this week.)
Saturday, December 6, 2008
Concho Christmas Concert and Tree Lighting
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Today, Carolyn is at a debate tournament in Seminole. However, she is not debating today just doing interp pieces. Her dramatic interp is from the book "Cut" and it is about a teenage girl in a hospital because she cuts herself. It is a real feel good piece. Carolyn seems to have captured the spirit of the piece and can give a heart wrenching performance of a very sad girl in a lot of pain. I am going to bake some cookies for Carolyn today in the shape of trophies because I "feel" that today is the day that she finally makes it to the final rounds and brings home a trophy.
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Where have I been
OK, on to Mopsy. Well, if I had been posting like I should be, you would know that Honey has just become the best dog ever. She is "technically" Bibianna's dog and this summer, Carolyn starting shopping for dogs because she really felt that she needed one too. Well, after checking out several rescues, we found this one sweet little mixed breed (maybe Shih Tzu and Poodle, definately poodle but not sure what else). She had been rescued by the Humane Society and was almost dead. It seems that her owner was very young and just wasn't ready for the responsibility for a puppy. Mopsy had come to the animal shelter very sick and covered in grass burrs. Well, after removing a good portion of her hair and being thouroughly checked out by the vet and put on IV meds/fluids, Mopsy bounced right back. After her surgery to spay her, we brought her home on July 3. Well, she has just been the best thing ever. Honey now has a playmate, and we have a perfect 2 dog, 2 cat family.
Let me tell you a little more about Mopsy. She is now 8 months old, so we are still going through the puppy stage. Her favorite thing is to get branches from outside and bring them in my living room and shread them. Her second favorite thing is to find anything she can...ANYTHING...and take it out into the back yard and shred it. Trash, knick knacks, medicine bottles, pens, pencils, paper, tissue, my small broom, flyswatter, flashlight, etc, etc. I think that Morocco and her have teamed up to accomplish this feat. I think that Morocco knocks things off of tables, desks, shelves to the floor so that Mopsy can then play with it. I am constantly amazed at the items that I find, and subsequently have to clean up from the back yard. And, chewing on stuff isn't her only favorite past time...Oh no....she likes to also chew on cats (which explains why Ella hides out most of the time) and people, furniture, window sills and poor little Honey. Honey used to have this big beautiful pomeranian tail. Well, now it looks like a few wisps of some old wig. But it is so fun to watch those two dogs play together.
Ok, so that's Mopsy and Ella with updates on Morocco and Honey. Carolyn and Bibianna (my other children) are both blowing and going so that I usually don't know whether I am coming or going. Carolyn is on the debate team at school doing LD (Lincoln Douglas debates) and interp. She is doing so well, even though she doesn't think so, and I am so very proud of how hard she is working. She is also in choir, taking voice lessons, ballet lessons and just completed drivers ed. We just need to go get the license. Yes, that scares the heck out of me.
Bibianna started off the school year managing for the volleyball team so that she was traveling almost every weekend for the first 6 weeks of school. She is in choir and Rebel Rage, and got a part as Barrister Munchkin in the Wizard of Oz which will be performed in February, so that means rehearsals every Tuesday night with a Saturday every now and again.
So, that's it, my last 7 months in a nutshell. If anybody is still reading, I will try to update more often than 2 times a year.
Dog Days
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Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Cooking with electricity
Monday, April 21, 2008
Ballet Recital
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Saturday, March 29, 2008
Constant Change
We left here on Saturday, and I slept most of the way (on-call hangover) to New Orleans. We left here about 7:00 AM and got to New Orleans about 10:00 PM. We took Honey with us and for her first long trip, she did fantastic. Then, on Sunday, Joey's mom had a coffee for us at 2:00 PM on Sunday. It was great. Aunt Judy, Uncle Mike, Uncle Anthony, Marilyn and the rest of us had a great after noon. (And "learned" how the date for Easter is determined!). Then I worked the next three days while Joey and the girls shopped, ate, and just had some good quality time.
On Thursday, we left for Lafayette and Lisa and Carl's BEAUTIFUL new house. Hurricanes can be rough, but the final outcome for Lisa and Carl was nice to see. They took all of us (including Staci and Steve's family) out for crawfish at a local Lafayette restaurant and it was SO FABULOUS!!!! I so miss the crawfish. Lisa also has a new teacup Yorkie (Daisy) who we all just couldn't get enough of. It was fun to watch Honey, who for the first time, was the BIG dog. Bibianna had so much fun with Madison, Collin, Bennett, Grayson, Robert and Benjamin, and Carolyn just tried to keep from being completely overwhelmed by the large group of people. ;)
Friday morning, we left for home. It was sad coming home, and I have to say that I have been kind of blue all week. It was great to see everyone but it makes me sad to leave them. Anyway, I am hoping that Lisa will be BRAVE enough to let Bibianna and I come and spend a week or so with her this summer. I am so blessed to have such a fabulous family, and I LOVE them all!
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Watta latta trouble
And, if that wasn't bad enough, we had planned to go to New Orleans next week for Spring Break. But, about two weeks ago, I discovered that my on-call schedule clashed with my vacation request; one of my team-mates graciously agreed to change with me (which meant that I would have two on-calls almost back to back after the vacation), then Joey was told that he had to attend a mandatory training class on the Tuesday of Spring Break, so we canceled our trip and one of my team-mates graciously agreed to change on-call schedule with me so that I wouldn't have to have two on-calls back to back, then Joey comes home today and says that they canceled the class because two many people were going to be gone. I don't get it. I just don't get it. So now Joey is trying to figure out how we can still get to New Orleans.
Day 5 of on-call and counting.......
Monday, March 10, 2008
Sunday, March 9, 2008
Honk, Jr.

Well, shame on me for not posting in such a long time. Honk, Jr. was a smashing success and one of the best experiences of my life. Bibianna shown as Penny the Swan and all of the kids were amazing. They made the newspaper with two fantastic full page pictures, they signed autographs, they received flowers and gifts. I couldn't believe the level of responsibility and maturity that I witnessed during the 4 hectic days of performing. I had the privilege of working back stage for the last production and those kids did that musical all by themselves. I was only there to band-aid boo-boo's and help with a quick change. If these kids are our future, we are in good hands.
The week was completely hectic, exhausting, overwhelming and completely blissful. It was so much fun to watch not only Bibianna, but the whole cast get more and more comfortable as the week progressed. Every show was completely full, with at least one sell-out performance. The show received several standing ovations. Then on Monday, I went through complete depression and withdrawals. I couldn't get the songs out of my head, and it made me so sad to think that this was over. However, there is next year, and we already have the audition dates on the schedule....
Sound of Music is the next production playing at Angelo Civic Theater. Bibianna has signed up to be on the stage crew which should be an awesome learning experience and Joey has signed up to help build the set. We are hooked....that's for sure.
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Solo Ensemble, Softpaws and Poor Sick Bibs!
Well, we had quite a busy weekend. Carolyn had her solo ensemble judging bright and early Saturday morning. Her voice coach graciously agreed to let her come and warm up at 7:30 on Saturday morning. I think that was a huge help for Carolyn. Carolyn sang a level 2 song, which at this grade/age level, most students are expected to only sing a level 3. She sang a French song, in French. She sang a level 2 song, in French and made a 1 rating!!! (which is the best you can do). The judge told her that she had very good posture and that her French was excellent. She said that Carolyn did an outstanding job. I am so very proud of her.
Bibianna is in the final rehearsals for Honk, Jr. and her director changed her part last week. Added more lines and made her part a little bit more dynamic. While the part/character really lets Bibianna shine, I would have been overwhelmed if I had been in her shoes and had to “relearn” my part in the ninth hour. However, since Bibianna isn’t me, she rose to the challenge. I am very proud and astounded that in about 3 days she picked up the new lines and committed (almost) to memory. In the meantime, my poor baby started throwing up last night about 8:00 and hasn’t stopped yet. She has a fever over 101 and is just sick, sick, sick. Here’s keeping our fingers crossed that she will be back on her feet tomorrow for the final dress rehearsal. That poor girl has had a tough time of it this winter. I think her immune system must be shot.
As for the kitty, we bought softpaws for him yesterday, and Joey, Bibianna and I put them on
Saturday, February 2, 2008
A rose by any other name
Here are a couple of pictures of the new little sweet kitty.
Friday, February 1, 2008
Recovery and new kittie
After Scooter's passing last week, the four of us all realized that we could not live without a kitty in the house. So,the girls and I scoured the adoption sites and found a kitten only 5 months old that looked almost like Scooter. He was DSH (for domestic short hair) 11112640. I called the Animal Shelter, gave them the number and then listened dejectedly as they told me that little DSH 11112640 was already gone. Not easily discouraged, Bibianna and I dropped Carolyn at ballet and then stopped in PetCo to take a gander at any kittens that they had for adoption. (They always have a ton and I always have to force the girls past them for fear that we will end up with several at our house.) Bibianna and I ran into PetCo, and straight to the cages. Big sign: "We are sorry, but kitten season is over for this year." Kitten season? Is there such a thing as kitten season? Really? Well, disappointed, and a little confused, Bibianna and I headed on to PetSmart. We ran into the store and having never been there before had to search for the adoption center looking something like a cross between the Scooby Doo Gang and the Bowry Boys. Then we saw HIM! The same sweet cute Scooter like kitten that we had called the Animal Shelter about. Little DSH11112640. We ran to the front of the store like we had just discovered oil and after they let us hold the little kitty and discover that he was just too sweet, we snapped him up along with some kitten food and new kittie litter. Then off to ballet to get Carolyn we sped. The three of us brought new little no-name kittie home to meet Joey. The picture was complete.
So, this week, while I was moaning and crying about being sick, and Carolyn and Bibianna were fighting at their most feroricious level because I had no voice to tell them to stop, the new little no-name kitty and Honey laid with me to make me feel better. It took about one day for no-name to figure out that Honey wasn't going to hurt him, another day for Honey to realize that no-name has claws and isn't afraid to use them, and one more day for no-name to figure out the Honey likes to be chased. Now the two of them are the best of friends and the greatest company a grumpy old sick woman could ask for. It is fun having a "baby" in the house again, although we have had several items broken already. It is good therapy for all of us.
Thursday, January 24, 2008
Farewell
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Drama, drama, drama.....
This weekend, Bibianna had a day long rehearsal for her upcoming theatrical debut as Penny the Swan in Honk, Jr. I have to say that if you have nothing to do on the dates of Feb 14 to Feb 17 then you should drive, fly, or swim to San Angelo and get a ticket to be a part of this wonderful occasion. I snapped a couple of pictures at the rehearsal on Saturday, even though it probably wasn't "approved." As you can see, the kids are just adorable! Bibianna also "volunteered" me to crochet 4 little beanie type hats for the four little girl ducklings. How could I say no?
Meanwhile, since Saturday both Bibianna and Scooter (the cat) have fallen ill. Bibianna has some sort of crud (yes, I paid good money for that diagnosis) and is on Zithromax and Advair. Scooter, on the other hand, has been moping around here for the past few days and not eating. I think he has a fever, so I guess we are off to Dr. Henderson tomorrow to find out what is wrong with him.
My photos on the kodak website are still not back...trying not to stress. Off to take care of my ailing patients, crochet little beanies, and hope that Scooter is as easy to take care of tomorrow (cheap) as Bibianna was today!
Thursday, January 17, 2008
Near crisis
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
Midnight in Manhattan
On Saturday night, January 12, 2008 the Cactus Hotel in

